Couples Therapy & Counseling in Berlin.

We’re Hedda and Simon – couples therapists and partners. We’re here to support you with our varied areas of expertise, working from a shared foundation and on equal footing. 

20–60 min. · by phone · no obligation

From one couple to another

We come from different worlds: Hedda is a clinical psychologist and hypnotherapist, Simon is a cellist, musician, systemic coach and couples therapist. Our professional backgrounds are different – and that's precisely what makes our collaboration so special.

Through his time touring and working abroad, Simon has encountered very different relationship challenges to Hedda, who has followed her career path in Berlin from the very beginning. We share a solid foundation: we completed our training in couples therapy together – which involved a great deal of first-hand experience – and we share a life together. You benefit from two sets of relationship and life experience, from the different areas of expertise of two couples therapists – and from the fact that you have both a female and a male counselor who consult with one another about your journey and combine their respective strengths.

Simon Hoffmann

Certified Couples Therapist · Systemic Coach

As a cellist, working with and moving people has been part of my life for a long time. Through music tours, international collaborations and seven years with the Israel Philharmonic Orchestra, I have learned what it means to harmonize within very different constellations – as well as what doesn’t work when communication breaks down. These experiences directly influence my work as a systemic couples therapist. 

Qualifications: 

  • Certified couples therapist & conflict coach, Institut für Integrative Paarentwicklung Berlin (IIP, 2024) 
  • Certified business and personal coach,  Coaching Akademie Berlin (2023)
  • Member of the Israel Philharmonic Orchestra for 7 years
  • Graduate of the Juilliard School New York (2014) & Universität der Künste Berlin (2012), Majoring in Cello
  • Scholarship holder of the Studienstiftung des Deutschen Volkes and Fulbright Scholar
  • Leadership coach for international companies

About Me

My Professional Background:

Couples Counseling or Couples Therapy - which is right for you?

Our services range from couples counseling to couples therapy and are geared towards couples who value the quality of their relationship and want to grow, together and as individuals, through challenges big and small.

RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE

For couples who want to protect their relationship or grow together

You are good together in general, but would like to improve your communication, finally resolve recurring conflicts, or just make sure that your relationship lasts in the long run. We call this “relationship hygiene”: regular maintenance before things get out of hand.

ACUTE CRISIS

For couples in the midst of a severe crisis

You find yourselves in the midst of a conflict that feels impossible to resolve. Perhaps there is a specific incident that has led you to this point – a breach of trust, a breakdown in communication, a feeling of drifting apart. Couples therapy creates a space where even the most difficult issues can be discussed. 

ALONE TOGETHER

For change within a relationship

In addition to working together as a couple, it often makes sense, to look at things from an individual perspective – what personal patterns and experiences does each person bring to the relationship? If desired, couples therapy can therefore be supplemented with individual sessions. 

Hypno-Systemic Couples Counseling

We combine two approaches that complement each other perfectly: Hedda’s therapeutic hypnosis and Simon’s systemic process support. Together they create a path along which the past can be understood and healed – and along which new avenues can be explored. Both as a couple and as individuals. 

Therapeutic Hypnosis

Hypnosis works with the subconscious. In a hypnotic state, emotional openness occurs – old emotional wounds can be felt, understood and let go of. This opens the way to peaceful solutions that often remain inaccessible on a purely rational level. Contrary to what many believe, you do not lose control under hypnosis – you regain control over yourself.

Systemic Process Support

Systemic work focuses on your resources and looks at your goal from a solution-oriented perspective. It centers on the interactions within your relationship dynamics: How do you influence one another? Which patterns recur? What do you really need from one another? These questions open up new possibilities for actions you can take in everyday life.

The exact rates for our couples therapy and couples counseling in Berlin will be discussed during an initial telephone consultation – because every situation is different. 

The costs are not covered by health insurance providers. 

Your Path to Couples Therapy

  • Free initial consultation 
    We’ll talk over the phone – ideally all three of us. You’ll describe your situation, I’ll explain the process and answer any questions. No obligation, free of charge, 20-60 minutes. 
  • First session together
    During the first session, we’ll get to know each other, clarify your goals, and decide together on the direction our work should take. Depending on the issue, we’ll either get right into it or first lay a solid foundation. 
  • Working through the process together

    In the sessions that follow, we’ll focus on the issues you’ve raised in a targeted manner – using hypnosis, systemic techniques and plenty of space for whatever emerges. You set the pace and determine the content. 

  • Completion & transfer 
    At the end of the process, we’ll take a look together at what has changed – and how you can apply what you’ve learned to your everyday life. Follow-up support is available by phone on request.  

What my clients have to say

Working with you has given me a new perspective. These overwhelming emotions are actually manageable if you approach them calmly. Overall, I’ve become calmer and more relaxed. 

· Loss & emotional stability

It felt as if I’d been reborn. Each of my cells had suddenly received a new, peaceful message. Every session left me speechless – and I noticed that I felt more and more at ease. 

· Fear of public speaking & inner strength

I can put myself into a state of self-hypnosis whenever I need it. I’m able to deal with my grief much more openly. Overall, I can say: I’m doing better!

· Grief & exam anxiety

Kontakt

Hast Du Lust, Dich von mir kostenfrei und ganz individuell beraten zu lassen? Im telefonischen Vorgespräch lernen wir uns kennen, Du schilderst Dein Anliegen – und wir schauen gemeinsam, ob mein Angebot zu Dir passt.

Ich freue mich auf Deine Nachricht.